- Do you ask them if they're pregnant?
- Do you call them fat?
- Or are you polite & keep any rude thoughts to yourself?
Most Helpful Guy
I don't react at all. I don't care.
Also, because you were talking about trying to get a flat belly, I wanted to say something. A completely flat belly for anyone with a uterus is not physically possible. Your uterus actually is tilted forward and pushes out against your lower belly. So there is actually an organ in the way.2
Most Helpful Girl
I never comment unless she's like 8 or 9 months and it's clearly obvious se's pregnant. Don't beat yourself up about it too much, soooo many girls are suffering from the same peoblem as you. I have a friend who has killer looks, but she also has a bump that won't go away and she's complained about it a lot before, but now she just doesn't care because she knows she's got other things to flaunt. Same as you. Can't even imagine how awful that must have been, but you're not the first and definitely won't be the last. I think it's appropriate to not comment because you never know, especially if you're a guy cause then you're just even more clueless about it. And honestly I wouldn't care if you had a tummy if you walked by, I'm more of a " I notice if people have confidence" kind of person. That's the only thing I notice, really.1