Why do guys here dislike boob jobs so much?

I'm barely an A cup (32A) and it really bothers me

Guys in real life are not into that at all

Yet in GAG from the answers to other questions I read men are strongly against boob jobs calling them a 'downgrade' even

Are they really that ugly? That doesn't seem to be the opinion of most guys irl

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  • The natural size isn't important. With implants, it's like trying to play basketball with a beach ball. It just isn't the same. Plus, many boob jobs change the shape so they don't have that natural drop. They look superglued on. Like a 10 year olds first attempt at drawing a naked woman.

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    • I think a better analogy here would be playing with a beach ball or not playing at all because in my case I am flat chested. Would a boob job still be a downgrade?

    • This is my opinion of course but I would say yes. A guy interacting with them will be more excited that he gets to than he will be about the size. Especially if it's a significant other who loves you.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Here's the thing, most guys on here are thinking are thinking of fake boobs like Pam Anderson, Victoria Beckham, and porn stars where it's glaringly obvious they have implants. But just like clothes, plastic surgery changes style too, and big circular implants was the style in the 90s. Nowadays women opt for a more natural look with plastic surgery and they have implant shapes, sizes, and material that can achieve that. Kate Hudson and Nicole Richie are not exactly the first names you think of when you hear "boob job" and that's because they got very natural looking ones proportional to their bodies. But before you make any big decisions, make sure you think about who you're doing it for. If you choose to get a breast augmentation it should be because you want one for yourself, not because you think boys will like you more with bigger boobs. Do whatever makes you happy:)

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  • I dated a girl with breast augmentations and I'd be lying if there were ugly to me visually, quite the opposite. When she wore sexy dresses and filled them out, I was in "hubba bubba" land. She was eye-catching as hell, and looking at her on dates was pure eye candy.

    Nevertheless, her body felt all wrong. It felt a little bit wrong when I grabbed and squeezed her breasts. Where it felt really wrong was when I held her really tight or was on top of her (missionary position, e. g.). Her breasts didn't compress like normal ones. The difference wasn't subtle at all in these contexts, and her breasts started to feel to me like they weren't a part of her and almost like an "obstacle" to intimacy.

    In terms of sense of sight, she was amazing. In terms of sense of touch, however, her body felt ugly to me in ways where I wish she didn't have the augmentations.

    This was when I was in my 20s so perhaps breast augmentations have come a long way in terms of feeling natural. I don't know, but if they felt the way my ex-girlfriend's did, I must admit I'd hate them. I might be staring at them on dates, but the moment we got intimate, her body would feel very wrong to me.

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    • I dated a girl with breast augmentations and I'd be lying if there [/they] were ugly to me visually, quite the opposite.

    • I think one common misconception girls have is that guys are mostly attracted by sense of sight. Of course we are from a distance since that's all we have to go by, and of course guys with little sexual experience would be since they haven't been close to many women. However, for me at least, other senses like touch and smell became just as important as sight as I got more experience. I now hold them equally important when it comes to finding a woman beautiful up close. From the sense of touch standpoint, unless there's a new style of breast augmentations I've never felt before, they are ugly to me (not to my eyes, but to my sense of touch).

    • In that ex-girlfriend's case, her augmentations also weren't even that large. They weren't like stripper level or pornstar level. They made her rather medium in size, maybe a C or D (I don't know how bra sizes work very well). Even then they felt all off especially when I was holding her tight or on top of her.

  • its not the fac that they are ugly its the fact the women whoo get them only get them for attention and announce they have a boob job. which is where all the crap comes from where you hear bad things.

    i dont really think a guy would know if you never said anything and he has never seen your boobs before and they can be really attractive but i dont think you should have it done out of insecurities because then you wil see more flaws in yourself which are not there.

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  • If a woman gets a boob job because she had a mastectomy, that's one thing, but if she gets one just to impress guys, I think she's shallow. It makes me wonder how insecure she is, and what else on her is fake? A woman who gets fake boobs, fake lips, fake hips, hair extensions, etc, is kind of one step up from a blow-up doll. I prefer a woman looking the way she should look, just the way she is.

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  • Because most breast implants look stiff and plastic. I think women make a bigger deal out of cup sizes than guys do. Personally, the look and shape of a girl's boobs matter more than her cup size.

    However, it's her body so she's entitled to do whatever makes her feel happy.

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  • Distance yourself from people who objectify you. Don't fall for a guy who likes​ you only because of the size of your breasts. Later on, you'll be the one crying about why he dumped you for a whore with big tits.

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  • I like the natural look and feel that's just a plus to me and also if a guy were to like you for your boobs IE would turn you down based on your boob size, would you really want anything to do with that guy? There is nothing wrong with your boob size.

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  • Breasts with a size of "C" cup look more pleasing than an "A" cup or "F" cup. So if your boobs are small and you are unsatisfied with your boobs , go for a boob enhancement surgery and get them to proper size provided you have the money. It is better to be happy with a boob job than having insufficiently tiny boobs which don't give you happiness. So increase your self esteem , confidence and happiness with the boob job.

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  • Boob job as in titty fuck?
    Or getting them bigger :D

    Ok I like all titties sizes and prefer natural over surgery but
    Won't lie and say I don't see them sexy and get a goner from fake boobs.

    And for the tity fuck it's awesome.

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  • It's fake. Fake hair, lashes, and boobs are just bs a girl covers hear real self with.

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  • The same reason they say they don't want girls who wear make up, because it's taboo. The expectation is that guys are visual and want girls to change themsleves to look good. So men play the opposite route and say they want natural beauty. Natural beauty is good of course but very few people are naturally good looking. Girls don't put on make up to look worse and girls don't get boob jobs to look worse. Don't get implants though, you'll lose a lot of bounce.

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  • Same reason most girls dislike dentures as opposed to real teeth, even if real ones are imperfect (gaps, fillings, etc). I rather suck on her real, small, lopsided boobs than a flap of skin with a saline bag stuck under it.

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  • I'm not opposed to women choosing breast augmentation for themselves, but I also don't find small breasts unattractive. Variety is part of what makes us beautiful.

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  • Don't listen to them, I have a friend who had a recent boob job and I think they look wonderful. Literally could not stop staring haha πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚.

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  • I LOVE little breasts!! Why would you ruin your beautiful body by having someone put some fake, plastic shit in you?
    If the guy you like isn't liking your PERFECT breasts, then he isn't the guy for you!!
    Or, are you one that thinks that a guy needs to have a nine inch penis?
    Why are so many so obsessed with what Society says, tricking you into thousands of dollars of surgery, for 'enhancements', only to find that you are still the YOU that YOU started with, but now with a lot of debt?
    The person that REALLY LOVES you, the one that REALLY cares, and wants to be with you, doesn't care, one little bit, that you have little A-cup breasts!
    If he is like me, he actually likes those, and prefers them, and just really wants you to be happy, and feel loved and cared about! That doesn't depend on body parts, but personality, interactions, trust, and love!

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  • i love titties your size and hate that social convention teaches girls that men only like big tits. its simply not true and there is no need to have surgery

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  • I don't know anyone who likes boob jobs.

    I personally love small boobs.

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  • Only a downgrade if you have an identical twin and you get one and she doesn't lol.

    No they are not that ugly and if you want them for yourself get them buy don't get them for us guys.

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  • I wouldn't mind getting a boobjob. It's always nice trying new things. 😏😏😏

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  • I used to be that way but honestly, as long as you do not get comically huge ones and they are not rock hard go for it!

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  • if you are getting it to feel better about yourself then I'm for it but if you're doing it to please others then I'm against it

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  • I think plenty of guys can't tell the difference... at least ones i've known.

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  • Guys in real life fall in love with personality not boob size.

    Guys who run after boob sizes are typically the guys who are after sex only which means they are most likely not ready for serious relationships.

    I have never heard anyone say I fell in love with her for her boobs.

    Yes they do notice it and are turned on by it but that's not a big deal.

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    • hey look, someone who gets it

    • Amen!

      The hotness of a pair of boobs is directly related to the person who owns them. It's the whole package that counts., personality and smile included, not the cup size.

      Now, confidence. Seriously, don't get a boob job for confidence. If you got crippling anxiety, get counseling instead. If you're just a bit too self-conscious, well, there are many more healthier ways to improve your body than a surgical procedure... like a bit exercise, ffs!

  • They are lying in order to be politically correct. As long as it looks good, they won't care. After all, they continuously watch those women in porn movies and they consider them sexy, so of course they don't have an issue with boob jobs.

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  • I am the same as you. My mother is as well. My father always loved her small boobs. My boyfriend loves mine. My little bruv @dogbert444 loves small boobs as well. You will have no trouble finding a guy. The guy that loves you will love your boobs.

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    • I would never have a boob job. Most guys fall into the stereotype of lusting after big boobs. It is what guys are supposed to do. In fact, if they are honest, many actually prefer smaller ones. Why? Big ones can sag later in life if the girl is not careful. That will not happen to my mother. Nothing to sag!

  • You are less likely to get breast cancer. Don't change who you are for a man. However, if YOU'RE wanting a change for YOUR confidence, I don't see anything wrong with it.

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  • FTR, I am not the Asker of this question.

    And I 100% know EXACTLY how she feels.

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  • Breast implants ruin perfectly fine breasts.

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