Most Helpful Girl
Are you asking if looks matter in a relationship? What does that have to do with followers? They aren't exactly related.
In a relationship I need to be somewhat physically/sexually attracted to him, but then his personality is what will reel me in and keep me. If he's absolutely bangin' but has the worst personality nothing could get me to stay.
So looks matter maybe 20-30% but that doesn't have to be conventually attractive, just what I like
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Most Helpful Guy
If what you want is superficial attention then yes, looks are of prime importance. People admire things which are aesthetically pleasing, that applies to people, animals, cars, clothes, you name it.
Will being good looking ensure that you have a lot of sex? Maybe. Will it ensure that you are happy and have stable relationships, no. That requires actually being a competent human being.
Looks are important, but they are not the only important aspect of a person and average looks are not an insurmountable barrier to a successful sex life and/or love life. You can transcend your looks with sufficient charisma and personality. If all you have behind average looks is bitterness then you are pretty much doomed.