I'm really insecure about my body, that's why during summer I mostly wear long dresses and pants to cover up my body. However, today was so hot that I was wearing shorts and a tanktop when doing grocery shopping. Let me be clear: no cleavage was showing and the shorts covered my ass completely.
When I'm covering up my legs people never stare, but as soon as I wear shorts, cars stop to let me cross the road, people hold the door open for me and stare at me as I walk by. Both men and women. As I said before I'm really insecure, and this just makes me more insecure. I'm afraid that they are judging me (too fat, too revealing, too ugly, etc.), while rationally I know it's probably nothing.
The stares might be a compliment or something like that, but it just makes me want to cover up again asap. Any words of advice?
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You don't need to feel insecure,, you have really nice legs!
Probably one reason you feel insecure is because a lot of guys who are attracted to you, are too insecure to approach you.
I was really shy like that in my teens and even at 20.
Then there are ones that already have a partner.
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