Most Helpful Guy
Because attraction is how you'll find a mate. Youth and beauty is what is attractive. Don't squander it.
Oh, you'll need more than that too, so develop yourself as a person of high value - a high-value guy will expect it. But he'll be looking for that right girl that's young and beautiful.
Most Helpful Girl
There's no such thing as being 'ugly' - beauty is a subjective matter. What is beautiful to one person may not be beautiful to another. However, there are beauty standards which are set by society and unfortunately, sometimes, if you don't match them, you get looked down upon which is a result of years and years of society's brainwashing