My friends have never called me pretty and whenever people make me feel like shit due to my looks in front of my sisters, they never try to comfort me even though I know I would definitely do so. I've been feeling really low these days a nd this latest insecurity has only been adding to it. I want to stop caring about my loos but I'm an 18 year old girl who's hardly ever been called pretty in my life, never gotten one guys attention and always given shit for it.
I just need some advice
Most Helpful Guy
The sad fact is that we can't all be physically beautiful. But that's ok. Physical beauty fades. What matters most is what's inside you. Or rather, the parts of your soul that you choose to share with the world. Look deep within yourself, decide what is the most amazing part of you, and choose to share that. Don't keep it in. Let it all out..
I'm not a beautiful person. Don't get me wrong, I'm not hideous. I don't have three eyes and mold growing on my nose. But I'm average. Nothing special about my physical appearance at all. And now I'm losing my fucking hair! But I have a good sense of humor. I decided to share that with the world when I was very young. That doesn't mean I tell a lot of jokes. I'm not a comedian. But it does mean that I'm always very free with a laugh and people like that about me. I smile a lot. I made a conscious decision to be happy and it's worked more often than not. You can do that too. Choose joy and joy will be yours.
Most Helpful Girl
Unfortunately, people nowadays put way too much importance into looking skinny. However, truth is that there are people who will find you attractive even if you are a bit overweight.