There is this 15 year old at work that I get along really well with. At first I did not know his age and there was a real attraction and connection. We would talk and things came easy for us. He also looks to be about my age or older. Then the subject came up for both us having feelings for each other. And I was thinking yes this will be perfect! Finally going to meet a great guy and have an amazing relationship. Then he told me his age, which is 15, and I am 19. So this kind of sucks for me. I broke contact and barely talk to him now. But at the same time I still have feelings for him, yet I also want to get over these feelings considering the age gap. Do any of you guys think it would be OK to pursue this or should I just give it up all together? I mean if her were older, obviously it would be OK. But it's a tough spot right now. Oh god I kind of hate myself for liking him but at the same time I can't help it!
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The cause of problem in this case is that you are looking at yourself using other people's eyes. Many do. And that's one major reason why many are unhappy, among others. This is one formidable psychological obstacle to get over for billions of people. But hey, it is YOUR happiness. YOU are responsible for it. Suggestion, talk to him. Apologize for the sudden withdrawal without a single explanation, it probably hurted him. Remember: YOUR happiness is YOUR responsibility.0
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