i have loved the same guy for years but he loves somebody else she has long blond hair and blue eyes I have long brown hair and brown eyes and glasses she didn't know that Derek (the man I love) loved her so I made a deal with him I told him that if I died my hair blond and if I got blue contacts and if I act like her would he accept me as a sex buddy then I told him that Sara (his love) would not know, now here I am trying to fill Saras shoes but it hurts because when we have sex he says her name not mine and he loves her not me and now she said that she loves him and Sara kissed him Derek said that we have to stop having sex know they are together and I'm alone what do I do?
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Girl.. I say you totally don't deserve this. You deserve much better partner and boyfriend. Not a jerk who doesn't treasure you the way you do to him. From what you said I can tell you with no doubt that he's never loved you, not one inch. And no, he is not going to like you anytime soon as the girl he's been loving is finally returning his feeling.
One little advice: Go find yourself someone who loves you for who you are, not as another girl's replacement. And you must learn to love yourself first before you finally meet that special someone who truly loves you.1