What would you go for?
A beautiful girl who's dumb or
an "average" looking girl who can hold an intellectual conversation?
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Women who rely on this either/or paradigm just don't understand men. At all. Generally speaking, we're all pretty shallow, some more than others. We are fairly visual creatures. Now, a smart girl should notice what men in general find attractive and play to those odds if she wants to catch a man. Of course this goes both ways. And then once in the relationship, both sides have the responsibility to work to continually improve themselves in order to keep their partner's interest.
That said... I do lean more toward the latter, but it really is a package deal. I must find her attractive in body, heart, mind and spirit.0