Why does it seem to me like guys like the clones? You know the girls who all look alike. Perfect bodies, blonde hair, long straight hair. Or dark hair and dark features. Basically most teenage girls. Now I am not complaining about my body at all. But I look different, I am not a clone. I think I am pretty like I am. But I always seem to want to change my hair or whatever so I can be like a clone. And it is weird because id espise those girls and I love ot be different but I feel like I need to be one of them. I think it is a misconception I have that guys like the clones because the clones are the ones who usually get the guys. But they are alos the sort of slutty ones as well. I think the guy I like likes me for me, so how can I overcome wanting to be a clone?
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The feeling of wanting to conform will always be there, you've just got to become strong enough that it doesn't ever tempt you or bother you anymore.
Learning to love yourself for who you are is the first step. Later in life you'll see that uniqueness is FAR more valuable than similarity. Just use what you have to your own advantage and know while it may look like a lot of guys prefer clones, many of them don't.0