I would like it on my lower back, but I am not a tramp and I hate when girls get stereotyped because of that. Any opinions out there?
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i'm going to tell you like I told someone else on here, no matter what you get SOMEONE is going to be there to say, "that's the trashiest thing I've ever seen in my entire life how does she look herself in the mirror every morning?" then there's going to be someone who wants to stop and talk to you about it and tell you, "ohhh!did it hurt?! I'm planning on getting one but I'm not sure what I want and I'm kind of scared.is it true that you can't get the drugs during labor if you have it?" and all the common conversation about that kind of tattoo.
you're going to have both parties ALWAYS clicking in your ear so unless you're ready to take on, "woww she's a total tramp" in one ear and "how cute did it hurt" in the other, then I wouldn't get it. you can't defend yourself to each person that sees it and it isn't like you can get it, then after awhile, if you don't like the attention go wash it off in the bathroom. I have 4 tattoos all under my hip under my panty line and at one point had 6piercings. all of my tattoos are only revealed if I want them to be revealed FOR THAT REASON. they don't hangout of my pants (SOME people can get away with that) but there are people I see and places I go where I don't want it to be seen. my grandmother didn't know for 4yrs that I even had one. she was one of the people I tried hiding it from because she's 110% against tattoos. she has no idea my cousin has it because she has hers in the same spot. the only reason my grandmother found out was because someone that knew about them told her. I got the tattoos for me, not for everybody else so I pretty much said, "f*** what you think it's my body." I got my nipples pierced twice (took them out so I only have my ears done now) and had my tummy awhile but when you have something like that done, you have to accept there will always be someone that loses respect for you just because of your piercings or just because of your tattoos and will say, "wow that's so trashy." if you can't then I don't recommend getting it. personally, I can't believe I put all those holes in my body but I don't regret it. until you're done saying, "but I'm not a tramp" I REALLY wouldn't get it. that's one of the reasons I took out my nipple rings, I was tired of fighting with both parties. that was another reason I got it done twice. I missed having it but then remembered why I didn't want them in. you can have every person on this site tell you what you should or shouldn't do but at the end of the day, you'll be the one looking at it for the rest of your life and dealing with people talking about it (good or bad) so go with your gut whatever it's telling you. good luck:)0