i mean, seriously. yeah some men are shallow but some men aren't. you can just get by with your looks ALL the time, you gotta know what to say and you gotta have SOME common interests. we can't just keep telling you your hot everyday then say "bye" only to do the same the next. that's using him!
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Women pride themselves in their vanity.
We not only compete with our beautiful Megan Fox-like peers that are lusted by guys, but also the media's portrayal of the physical attributes that are desirable to the typical male. We have books upon books, magazines, television shows and websites that are dedicated to our vanity and how to alter it to attend to the male psyche.
But sometimes...yes your right, sometimes our vanity is all that we have, and our countless attempts of altering our physical appearance ultimately can rob us of our unique feminine characteristics. We become jealous of that hot girl in high school. Sometimes- your right- we do use guys just as a justification of our physical hotness and a justification that we are desirable to men; that we have defeated or succumb to the social stereotype of beauty and we are at last comfortable with our vanity.
The sad truth is some girls will never be comfortable of their vanity and need the constant validification of guys to know they are desirable.1