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I think its best to date someone who is motivated, has goals, and is into who you are as a person. An average looking guy can become seriously hot because he has a fabulous personality, drive, ambition and treats his lady like a princess. A super hot guy can make himself ugly by being egocentric, dumb, and dismissive. I think most women want a man who can hold a conversation (preferably about more than sports), shows interest in her life, has ambition and passion, and is genuine. I date someone who is in professional sports, it's an extremely challenging situation, we both work very long, hard hours, things are often stressful and he constantly gets hit on by jersey chasers. There is a lot of trust that goes into dating an athlete, plus you have to deal with all of the diet and exercise issues. Then again, dating a super hot guy who has no drive beyond being average, makes the super hot guy go from a 10 to a 3.
The best line I've ever heard regarding finding a partner is "Be the person you want to find". What do you want? How do you want to be treated? Would you rather date a beautiful, unmotivated, airhead, or would you rather date a girl who doesn't always turn heads, but stimulates you mind, heart, and soul? Or you could just find the total package: looks, drive, passion, intelligence, and wit.