Whats the biggest factor? and what are the secondary factors?
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Personality. If we don't click in any way then I am going to reject you; if you're not good looking but we have a personality spark, you have a much, much better chance than a great looking guy who's nothing like me. Looks play into it, of course, because I'm not going to pursue you if I don't find you at least somewhat attractive, but personality can go a long way in making you attractive. More than once I've found myself attracted to a guy after talking to him, when the evening prior I probably wouldn't have considered going out with him.