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Seems to be that thing where female dislike other female being competition
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Girls can be really mean to other girls. Girls are intimidated by pretty girls. I can relate.
Hmmm... well i had something similar but could be unrelated, i had a few girls who used to hang about with me and chat to me... then i lost weight, started dressing more snappy and suddenly... unless they are on there own they won't speak to me. Never really realised what it was, maybe i just turned into more a dick, but odd that 4 (and 1 doesn't even talk to the other 3) would suddenly stop talking to me. They all have bfs so i just took it that before they could write me off as being fat, but now am not that fat bloke they hang about with to there bfs i am a nice looking guy maybe? fuck knows... people suck
Too (anything) means it causes problems. sounds like that is true for you, if only in your own head. Teat your hypothesis by dressing down, and seeing if that makes you more comfortable with your peers. Play down your best features, forgo makeup, wear less stylish, more casual clothing.
If you feel more comfortable, and you get the social reactions you want, then there you go. You now have another way to fit in. Save the haute couture and warpaint for when you want to stand out.
This isn't me making a thing about my looks but am I too good looking lol.
You're serious competition, they're worried and quite jealous.
I'd like to meet the narcissistic person that thinks they're too pretty to be liked by others.
do not give a fuck hun you are a women
its that simple
That’s usually how it goes for me.
yeah, if it also makes you conceited.
This is standard women behavior. We need a Gilette ad to go over the toxic ways women treat each other...
If you are with ugly people.
It makes you unapproachable just because most girls at college age are figuring out how they feel about fashion and their bodies.
It's not about being unlikable, it just means a lot of people wouldn't even give you a chance to be either nice or mean.
Throughout high school & college, I kept getting "Girl, are you for real?" and "Quit fakin' that nice girl image b'coz a pretty chic like you are probably just another nasty snob with all your white & Asian boy bodyguards!" I really wasn't anywhere like how they thought of me. Fortunately, a lot of them got to know me and realize that I was truly approachable, friendly, down-to-earth & not as intimidating as I look.
Some women are jealous and negative people sadly but on the bright side you are not being judged unlike what happens to other people like there are loterally people who are complimented by their parents but then judged or unnoticed by almost everybody else
No, but having an ego this huge sure as shit does. Dial it back a little.
No there just jealous they talk about other people. Cause they feel inadequate.
I would think it makes you more lovable
I mean you gain haters but nope
i got a lot of side eye. my guy friend pointed it out to me and asked if i ever notice many women side eye me. as for dressing, i sometimes shop at boohoo, but i like Next or river island, etc. i kind of started dressing down so i wouldn't get so many "where are you going?" "where are you coming from?" "why are you dressed like that?" comments. but im slowly gaining back confidence. i liked how i dressed. girls can be really mean.
Maybe because they think you are stupid or selfish, girls that look too pretty usually have troubles being humble
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