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i think it depends on the shape of the girl and her proportions. I'm chunky. I need to lose weight because I'm very overweight. I've had people tell me that they don't think "big girl" when they see me and they don't think of me as fat. Let me just clarify that I am only a little over 5'3 and I need to lose about 80-90 pounds, so it's no overestimation or hyperbole when I say I'm a fattie. lol Yet some people see you differently if you carry yourself differently. I won't date because I'm too insecure right now but I've had a lot of guys try to talk to me and hit on me, and most of them were not big, and a lot of them were really attractive. So I don't know I think everyone has different standards. I would call myself "fat as hell" personally but a lot of people I meet say that, while I could stand to lose a few pounds, I'm beautiful as is and all that sh*t that is so not true. I also think having a pretty face helps. I've noticed that people seem to see an overweight or obese girl's body differently if she's pretty. It's kind of funny.
many guys do have a preference though. Or think they do anyways. Guys who like girls petite in general like small breasts, hips, thighs, and butt can more accurately choose a size they prefer I think than men who say they don't want a girl with a certain size clothes, but still want lots of curves. That's almost contradictory in many cases, but you know men. lol
i like women, but generally girls smaller than I am. I like chubby girls though and curvy girls. I don't have an ideal size, because at different heights and proportions and body shapes, girls look different. A girl with the same weight or size that I have may look drastically different if she has a completely different body type/shape or she's like 6 inches taller than I am. Plus being curvy in hips, butt, breasts, or thighs can lead you to be a bigger size too, one that isn't indicative of your waistline.