She has only a few articles of clothing of mine but she also had me buy her something online and it was said I would be paid back. ($100 worth) ...I make good money, but it's still mine and I don't want to be walked over after being dumped but I also don't want to come across as being an ass for asking for this stuff back that's mine. What's the best way? We work at the same company but don't often see each other.
Whats the most respectful method and way of telling her I need to get this stuff back since it's over?