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I first look on lifestyle/personality because that is going to last longer than any and all appearances because it is a lot harder to destroy someone's personality than someone's looks or even intellect/conversation. I would second look upon a woman's intelligence because that has become even more valuable in today's time and I would what a women who could challenge me intellectually and hold down a conversation. Then I would look for appearance. I hope the woman cares about her appearance. If she does, then she'll look good no matter what!
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