do guys want their girls prettier than them? or do they usually look for someone at their level?
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I guess for the purposes of this post I'll assume I'm a 7 or 8. I feel most comfortable with other 7s and 8s but I think that's circumstantial, that is, it's because the 9s and the one 10 that I've had were kind of screwy and annoying. The most attractive people really have a hard time because it's a constant struggle to maintain the highest level of appearance, always. 7s and 8s (girls) are always cute, mostly pretty, and sometimes beautiful, and many of them have a decent personality to boot. Can't argue with that! I'd be lying if I said I didn't think about being with a 9 or a 10 from time to time but I know it's a headache in general. If she's that good looking, she's going to be self-obsessed and then what's the point of spending time with her? I know I'm generalizing here, but in my experience it's only the low self-esteem 10s that are even tolerable in conversation. Many won't even look at a guy who approaches them unless he's a 9 or a 10.