I've gone to his house numerous times, and he is very fortunate. He lives in one of those rich/friendly neighborhood's, and his backyard is the city's lake. The weirdest thing is before I met him he told me he "didn't live in the nicest area", and I felt relieved since I didn't either, but his house and neighborhood makes my place look like a shack... Plus his mother and sisters are skinny and beautiful, but are agnostic. :\
My family is the complete opposite. We live in the ghetto, and our house is falling apart. Plus my house is kinda ghetto rigged every where you look. I know its wrong to say, but I'm kinda ashamed of it. Both my parents are blue collar, and over weight. Plus my dad has gingivitis, so his mouth is all jacked up. My family is very happy though, and are strong Christians.
Here's where I get worried... Saturday he is coming over for the very first time, and I'm worried he is going to look down upon my family. I mean we are impoverished compared to him, and I just feel kinda embarrassed about it all.
What do you think he will think of me afterwards?
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My dear, when you'll be in your 70s and will feel like you just know it's true love, by then you will have learned that this is just a strong feeling, not an actual objective impassionate assessment that I fact your love is mutual, lasting and true.
If I had a penny for each 16 year old who thought he or she had a true love, and was wrong, I would be far wealthier than your bf's family could even contemplate.
The bottom line is, I think his family would let him fool around with you but if he says he wants to marry you they would pressure him to look around more and to not marry until after some fancy college.
I would not go as far as saying that your Boyfriend would specifically look down on your relative poverty, but if there are things around the house that obviously need care and are not receiving it, that would be a turnoff as to some extend it rubs off on you as a future housewife. If neither of your parents are taking care of their heart health and making smart food choices and keeping their weight in check, inevitably you have the risk of acquiring the same shape after your teenage metabolism slows down.