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Initial interest is dependent on looks for both genders. Attraction is not rational. If that was the case we'd see evidence. Yet that's not the case. Intellect can enhance attraction for people who like intelligent partners, but it can not outweigh beauty. Otherwise intelligent people would automatically be attractive to many people, but in reality that does not materialize. Beauty/attraction comes first then other parameters create the whole package. Personally yes I find intelligent girls attractive but it does not outweigh beauty. Its same for both genders.
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I know a lot of smart and rich guys who could have had very good looking girls - they almost all universally married smart woman who weren't so good looking - I only know on very rich guy who married a pretty woman that wasn't too smart and he divorced her when she was older.
I mean. I've met some so called smart dudes that have been pretty stupid and some "stupid" guys that have turned out to be pretty smart. People are just better at different things. I've heard by a lot of people that I have a mature and intelligent mind but I've also met a lot of people who have called me a retard or stupid for not understanding every single thing. So depending on what you expect from others and what they expect from you, you could be either really smart or really dumb.When it comes to beauty I do believe being at least average looking in the eyes of the person you like, will make them fall much easier for you. But people can look beautiful once you start seeing their true colors (same goes the other way around). In other words beauty is important, but people can become beautiful without having to change their appearance.
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Definitely not for guys. They should at least be honest that looks are the most important thing they care about. Women are reduced to objects of pleasure.I once saw a meme and it's correct.Men MULTIPLY every other good quality of a woman with her looks while women ADD all of his good qualities. Men are visual and women are emotional. I have seen many conventionally unattractive guys with beautiful girls but never the other way round. Things are a lot worse in certain countries where the standards for women are really high while those for men are so low. Goes to show men in those countries are more shallow than women.
My boyfriend doesn’t care if I’m smart or not, I suck in math and it’s not like a girl is magically perfect if she can do math. Intelligence and being smart is two different things, you can be smart in math and all subjects or whatever but not be intelligent when it comes to other things:3I would say.. don’t judge a girl by her grades😂 and dont judge her by her looks either, judge her by personality
That would depend on the comparison put forth, if a girl with superior mental attributes does not match the sexual criteria of what I perceive to be attractive, than I will chose the beauty queen and keep the intellectual girl as a friend (if speaking within a purely sexual circumstance). If the beauty queen however is too domineering or out of sync with my personality, than I will end the relationship and I may have neither as a partner.
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Surely... but she still needs like decent looks... and on the other side beauty can never outweight intellect... a hot girl that has no brains is a total dealbreaker
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Intellectual with a beauty in its own way can. Beauty here does not define as been Fair. Beauty here just define as how you present yourself. If you are Intellectual and present yourself in a proper way you will Outweigh the Fairness beauty which people define in general.
Yes it can!!! Because if all a girl knows is fashion and how to upkeep herself make up and fashion wise also included are reality shows and gossip, then she won't last too long, I want a girl that likes to think and use her mind. Kind of like a 12 year old in grade school that's curious about the world and wants to learn more about it, like space or biology that never loses curiosity for learning
Intellect alone cannot outweigh beauty in most cases, but the combination of all the factors that make up a woman's personality, including intellect, definitely outweighs beauty for me, and most guys I know.But it should be noted that beauty is what attracts a man to a woman, and personality is what convinces him to stick around and commit to her, or drives him away.
It can't. No matter what men say it just can't. Sure, intelligence could make some men more interested but looks are still primary to men, more than they would like to admit.
It definitely can. No matter how physically attractive a woman can be, if we can't hold a conversation it isn't going to last, and I love talking about complex topics. Deep intellectual conversations late at Night? Necessity haha
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Yes, but I think you still need to have both. The old beauty is in the eye of the beholder saying. I think intellect falls under that as well. It depends on who's into you.
Sometimes yeah. I have a friend who i doubt will have a good relationship cause she is just extremely dumb. She is not one bit logical and she needs help. I dont think I’d ever date anyone with her intelligence but she is kinda pretty. Still tho
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Guys have shared this already but intellect can outweigh beauty. But it doesn't work the other way. A ditzy hot bimbo is just mentally boring. The relationship would lack substance.
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i've battled this plenty of times and i have to tell you that neither wins. if you don't have both you lose in my game.
Yeah, I spend a lot more time looking at what's inside my head than what's in front of me, so if someone has a beautiful mind then that outweighs an unatractive face to me
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I do like smart woman, even if they aren't like models or whatever.I'm a big tech geek, so it's nice to talk to women who get what I'm talking about.
Taking about Arduino and soft robotics with an interested us pretty hot 😅
In an ideal world, we'd judge people based on their intellect and personality. Appearance would be the last thing we consider. But, we don't live in an ideal world.
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I would personally say so. while having a pretty face is great and all it's not everything. in fact for me if a woman has a great mind and personality that actually makes her more attractive as far as i'm concerned.
People will always look at your appearance, but the one who choses to stay it’s for your personality and intellect, so in long terms, intellect will win, but if you have both you definitely have won lottery
No it can´t. Those are completely different values, and one cannot be substituted for the other.
It really depends what you're into. This is probably mostly true for pansexuals and demisexuals, other people can also find intellect important enough to not care about looks as much.
Yes it can. Yes physical attraction is about half of what you see in someone but a beautiful mind can make anyone your perfect match.
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For a girl, no. Her physical beauty will always trump what she has up top.
I think it can hands down as beauty is very sexy. Now I also believe there are limits as well as I would not find a woman over 300lbs to be attractive no matter how intelligent she was.
No. The 'metric' for each has no units in common. Like comparing kilograms to meters-per-second.
As much as a potato can outweigh an orange. They're two completely different and almost entirely unrelated things. One isn't better or worse than the other. They're just different.
Absolutely, if you’re going to live with this person it will be much more pleasurable if she’s able to communicate and reflect as a grownup.
I’ve had my fair share of bad communicators and that’s the Achilles heel in relationships.
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Absolutely, you can be the most beautiful person in the world, but if you can't have a conversation about anything above reality TV level then it's a deal breaker.
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Yeah it can.To me beauty can't outweigh intelligence
Yes. Beauty fades. I'd much rather have someone smart to talk to
When you're below average or ugly people generally treat you differently no matter what you do let alone in relationships and attraction
Yes it can those who says no are not mature enough yet
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If she cares about her health enough to look at least average, yes. Looks aren’t that important to me, and what I want most in looks is simply a pretty face and long hair. What I really want is a fun and smart sweetheart.
If a person is intellectual he or she will for sure try to be beautiful. If your mind is, your body too
For guys who like smart girls possibly. But for me, i prefer he look good rather he be smart. We’ll both have slow moments together 🤷♀️
Nahh. Im ugly and im sure intellect can never outweigh physical beauty.
I look for both. If the guy is very smart and OK looking then I would date him, but if he is hot and not smart then I probably wouldn't date him.
He should also be athletic.
For me he needs to be smart. Our future together is important.
It goes together and is more than the sum of two parts
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never... i have a simple answer intelligence acquired after you are born but beauty is god gifted. you bring the most dumbass person to me and after a year or so i can show you that person is pretty intelligent.
Sure. I love finding girls that are as smart or smarter than me.
I find intellect very appealing. Especially in this dense and dim witted society.
Yes it can ! Because everybody like to be with someone who is a bit smart and not stupid.
Yes sure, as long as she doesn't brag about it every fuckin moment!
Yes, because looks are only pleasing to the eye. Intelligence is pleasing to the ear, mind, heart, and soul.
Yes, as long she doesn't lose that X-factor that I'm seeking. The woman in your picture has that X-factor that I'm seeking.
Well yes it does for me. To have somebody that you can talk to for anything under the sun is always fun.
Ideally yes.Practically, not so much ( in most cases).Which is a sad truth.
When self-care is not in the equation, intellect doesn't do wonders.
Beauty fades with age
YES especially if they're a smartass about it
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Yes, of course it can.
Oh my gosh, hell to the yes.
Definitely, if your not shallow
I'm a great admirer of wisdom and intellegence. But I also admire a flat shapely belly. But what I find truly sexy is a woman who cares enough about herself to have both.
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It does for me. Beauty is a plus though.
It is better and matters too
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Yes Of course it's 3:1
It can, within reason.
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