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First of all, never apologize for snooping, I hate this stigma that if you snoop, you're doing something wrong and invading. I'm sorry but I always say, if there is nothing to hide there'll be nothing to find. Admittedly you could find something that looks bad but is innocent, but you just ask the person. They might feel like you don't trust them, but if they are honest with you, that trust will begin again, plus, you wouldn't have gone snooping if your instincts weren't there. Now, if I were in your shoes, I would actually confront him about it all, and let him know you know he's lying. If there is an innocent explanation he will come rolling out of it and should understand why you thought something was going on, if he goes on the defensive, personally he knows he's guilty. People who lie, and decieve can be easily caught out. Personally I believe he has decieved you. The one where you were casual, you could put down to the fact that you were in the beginnings and he strayed. However, if you feel that you two are now a couple and all that, then yes I too would feel something was odd. There is such a thing as having your cake and eating it, and he may well love you, but it looks to me like he wants the cherry on the top too. Lay it out and make it clear, and you will get your answer.