Most Helpful Girl
Girls want guys who are:
-- trustworthy enough to handle a few cheerful/tearful stories, to know and understand us (even when we're surfing the crimson wave), to want to be with us whether we're in calm or turbulent waters.
-- trusting enough not to tailgate at parties, shadow us on FB, etc. (While I know some guys get crazy with jealousy, it's really not flattering for the girl AND it's not healthy for the guy!)
-- honest/direct, even if the news is rough. Seriously.
-- assertive/confident enough about who they are and what their goals are that they will be able to speak easily about a variety of topics, ask us out, etc.
-- sexy enough to make us think of you while were sitting around whiling away the hours till quitting time, to make us feel like superstars (so we're inspired to reciprocate).
-- faithful... oh, faithful. (There's a real shortage there -- yes, the same goes for girls.)
Girls want guys who have:
-- a sense of humor and positive attitude. (Of course, not every day is sunshine and rainbows and you should be comfortable sharing that with your girl, but if you're always Eeyore with the rain cloud hovering overhead, no one will want to be with you for too long.)
-- good manners. (1) We want to be treated like ladies. (2) We want to be around gentlemen.
-- a consistent attitude about things (mental stability).
-- a steady job with a five-year professional plan. (No, we don't want you to get distracted from your plan by helping us with our plan. There's a wonderful feeling that comes from earning your own way.)
-- the ability (or consistency) to follow through with things (whether it's a date, a promise to fix something, a visit to your mom, etc.).
-- the ability to look at us with eyes that make our hearts melt. ;-)
Well, I think the list is long enough for now. The rest is a little too rich for you young-uns to handle, lol.