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What they're telling you is fantasy and you know it. We tend to date people that we're attracted too; Most people want date you if they cannot not be into you. All that is part of the attraction, but its not enough to carry a relationship just being a nice person.
All these people calling him a jerk or saying he's a jerk if he walks away is ridiculous and kind of silly. If they're point was correct than we would date anyone that comes up to us. This isn't the case at all. No one is a jerk just because they cannot be into you and fall in-love with that enter beauty...well ok.
I read a post where the guy met an online relationship and when he got there he was into her, but she was sweet so he stayed the weekend and don't want to meet her again. He seemed like a nice guy; he wasn't into her. He may find you attracted also. I would meet him and expect just to have a great time with someone you been chatting with online than again he may not look like his pictures...