dyed blond hair, hollister clothes, natural makeup. I wanted guys to think I was hot, and they told me I was. the problem was that I looked like every other girl at my school.
i stopped dying my hair and started dressing and doing makeup like this: link
guys have stopped calling me hot, but random girls will tell me they wish they were as bold as me. people look at me when I walk down the street. and today a guy with a nice camera told me I was interesting and asked to take my picture.
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Interesting is the way forward, because for me I want a my mates and boyfriend to be the same, I want interesting not boring and dull...and of course that is my perspective cause what I find boring and dull others might find interesting.
I don't not like looks, and it is nice if someone thinks I am hot, or attractive, but I don't take it for granted. I wouldn't say I was particularly attractive anyway, but its not for me to say, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but I couldn't be with someone just to have them look good on my arm, and vice versa. And friends are the same, I wouldn't hang around with someone, just to make myself look better. (I know this girl who befriends fat people, and only goes clubbing with bigger girls, because she believes that she won't have competition, its actually wrong, and I tell her it is)
Plus if you stand out, and aren't looking the same as every other blond, padded bra, air head, girlie look, you're more likely to be noticed, and its likely the girls won't like you. That's what I have found in my experience. I think it looks so desparate when girls just fight for the attention of that one guy in the room...never done it myself and never will.
There's also that girl, you may have seen one like this, but she's probably blond, and on face value we give her the stereotype that she's probably a bit dim. But when you talk to her, she is in fact intelligent, and you actually love the fact that she isn't conforming to her stereotype, and you feel guilty you ever judged...AND THEN, ...
She is among guys, and she becomes this pathetic little, air headed bimbo you first thought, and you know she;s not like that really, you know she could probably kick each other those guys asses, but she puts on this...i don't know fake personality...I DON'T UNDERSTAND IT.
Why can't people, especially these kind of girls, not embrace the fact they CAN LOOK AFTER THEMSELVES, AND DON'T NEED TO APPLY TO EVERYONE'S FIRST IMPRESSIONS. I like that I am independant, and can tie my own shoes laces, and can dress myself..etc etc...
Soeeey I ranted, but I couldn't stop myself.