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personality > looks. I'm much more attracted to dynamic intelligent person than ditsy model mostly because in my experience it's more fulfilling when both sides can contribute to a relationship other than just being aesthetically pleasing.
as for being a tomboy or a girlie girl it's kind of a balance of both just like how most girls don't want to date a leathery lumberjack or effeminate man with a manicure, we all want a little of both.
I like it when we have stuff we both like to do but there are some aspects of our lives that are our own, after all being with a person all the time can be stifling. it's a good thing if there competitive from my POV because I like someone to challenge me, and I hate to drag people along. if there better at somethings than me that's great I can learn somethings from them and we can help each other. knowing how to have fun and create there own fun is a requirement as well as willing to do something crazy on the odd occasion.
there is one thing I always find attractive that you didn't ask about, a person who encourages me is the one quality that can make or break my decision to ask them out. if they make me want to be better, if they encourage me when I doubt my self, and stand up to me when they think I'm wrong that kind of person is worth risking a lot for.