I guess I'm just looking for the nice pretty girl. I know they're out there because my mom was one (not to sound awkward).
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it's okay, men are made that way. You are visual creatures. However, outward beauty fades so it shouldn't be a deal breaker. I think when you find the right one and your personalities click, you'll look past the physical flaws because you'll like that person so much. Outward beauty is not a bad thing, it's a VERY good thing : ) so go ahead and pursue the "pretty" women, or the women YOU are most attracted to ( ideas of beauty differs from person to person), and find one with a personality that you love also. Don't try and be loves martyr and pursue women YOU are not in anyway physically attracted to just because they are nice...this is a sure path to failure and really unfair/unkind to the lady. I think there needs to be a healthy balance...just keep in mind that looks are deceiving and that you should strive to give people a chance even if they don't look the part because you just might find that you like them enough to overlook the fact that your aren't in love with their appearance...use your discretion : )