why is it when I'm in a relationship I get all the attention in the world but when I'm single I'm like a fly on the wall to women? the don't bother to check me out when I'm alone but if I'm with a girl holding her hand or walking with her through the mall I'm so appealing?
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THE HONEST TRUTH
Taken guys are automatically more attractive.
And it's not because "you look more confident", or "you're good at relationships". That's just bull. Girls come up with all kind of excuses to justify this behaviour. They just can't admit they're interested for sole reason they can't have you. Anything other than that is just a lie.
My friends are exactly like this. They flock to a guy when he's taken; when he's single again, then they couldn't care less about him. One of them (my best friend) told me when I asked her about it: "I dunno. I guess he lost his spell y'know". Riiiiight. -_-
What you have to do is take the girl who wants you when you're alone. Not the fickle, herd mentality bitches. ;)5