OK so honestly my type of guy is the one full of tattoos and piercings and gauges and that whole rocker look (not emo) and I seem to end up with the whole surfer guys, which yes I do find attractive but id much rather be with a rocker dude because I see myself lasting a lot longer with them and because I would probably have a lot more in common with them. well now I'm dating this guy that isn't really my type, he surfs and is cute but just NOT my type,...but I do like him. but the thing is when I see guys that are my type and that I am attracted to it makes me want to just dump the guy I'm with and try it out with someone that I am completely attracted too..i feel like I'm just settling..idk any advice? what should I do?
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The thing is, is that the piercings and tattooes are a customization of a person. Just because they have peircings and tattooes doesn't mean you and them are going to 'hit' it off. And obviously you seem to find a completely different 'type' to be more compatiable...in a stereotypical look of your 'type' you seem to go in terms of looks for that
Bad man image- the look that is a little rough around the edges and looks hard etc
and yet when it comes down to it, you seem to date that 'perfect look' the perfect body the nice hair etc
Its almost like the total opposite of each other, and I can actually relate to that.
In one respect I love the domiant look, that powerful, could knock you down with just a look, 'type'
But in reality I prefer a guy to be more softer, still more man then having a 'femine' side, but I don't think I could be with a guy who just kept filling his ego by trying to seem all powerful and mighty.1