nearly every single guy in my year (17 year olds) are always swearing..
it seems every second word is f*ck this or f*ck that, or f*ck you. I don't see how they think that makes them look good or something because to me and a lot of other girls, its really unattractive and shows how immature they are..
why do they always swear?
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It's probably cultural, and a sense that it's 'cool' or rebellious.
I think there are worse crimes to be honest. I remember some girl at university had a go at me for swearing. I know for a fact that I have a greater vocabulary than her, pursue more intellectual and mind expanding activities, and am just generally a nicer person with a strong (non religious) sense of wrong and right.
To put it in another way, we all go through various enlightenments in our lives, and I remember at the age of 15 some girl told me I never swear. I'm 26 now and I sometimes swear now, although it doesn't litter my conversation. The point is, swearing is not a great indication of maturity. What would be more concerning is if you can't have a deeper sort of conversation with these guys on a one to one basis. Don't be so dismissive.2