I've been dating this guy for a few months now and I guess he reached that level where he feels he can be completely honest with me.
We were having lunch yesterday and while we were in the middle of eating, he stares at me intently for about 5 seconds (it was quite long). and it was actually staring, not looking. and he says pointing to his own forehead, "you have acne", then goes back to eating.
what the f***?! is it just me or was that beyond rude? I mean, I don't point out his flaws. I could, but I'm polite and I don't because physical appearance doesn't matter to me and personality does. but it really threw me off that he would be so rude. and it made me feel really ugly and unattractive.
and as a side remark, he never tells me I look good, but always criticizes how much I paid for my outfit. I try so hard to look put together for dates, and ladies you know what I mean. the outfit, shoes, makeup, hair, accessories, it's a lot of work and he doesn't appreciate any of it. it's not that he doesn't say I look nice, but he would actually make me tell him the price of everything I'm wearing and lecture me on it. what the hell is that about?
PS I feel the need to point out my skin is not bad or covered in acne. but I do get the occasional pimple or two.
so does a pimple really matter to you guys?
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No, it doesn't matter that much.
For the record, I don't think it matters to this guy either, from the way you describe him.
He's just not that sensitive of a guy. He probably doesn't know when he's saying things that might offend or hurt other people's feelings.
And from the sound of it, he'd be fine if you wore cheap clothes around him, or didn't bother with make-up, etc.1