When we first got together I wasn't fat but I did have a few extra lbs but because of an illness I had a few months ago I lost around 50 lbs now I'm smaller than I've ever been even in high school! He has always been attracted to heavy girls! I love my new body and don't plan on getting big again but also want to still be able to turn my man on at home! I want him to look at me again! What do I do?
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thats a pretty nice weight. if you are comfortable, then stay there.if he lobes you hell get used to it. you should not have to gain weight for another person, that's just odd. A it invasive. You can not be that eight & not have curves, so try to help him get used to it. I do not think a person should expect you to gain weight for then. I imagine having extra weight if,would be a relief, so if you feel healthy. then keep the weight,. People often have the opposite problem. Their boyfriend loses attraction for them because they are to heavy, This is a much easier problem because you are genuinely healthy.& It is less pressure on your joints, your heart, kidneys, liver, mind, your whole body gets a break basically, when you have less extra weight. Plus you were just sick, he should just be happy you are feeling bette.