Why do girls fix themselves up to look so good that if they could they would do themselves if they could, and then get upset when a guy looks at them for more than 2 seconds, and I literally mean 2 seconds ! - I mean dang, they knew how good they looked before they left the house so why do they get all upset when a guy notices. And don't respond with any of that insecure crap. your insecure when we look, your insecure when we don't...WTH is up with women these days ? !
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Women don't always get upset when you notice how they look. It depends what else is going on, though. We're assuming you mean strangers passing eah other in the street, not work colleagues or anything tricky like that:
-- If a random old man decides to leer at you as you walk, that's not flattering, that's insulting.
-- If a random guy smiles or nods at you in greeting while you pass, maybe says hi, that's flattering.
-- If a random guy turns to stare at you as you pass, you're not likely to see his jaw dangling out of its sockets anyway, so it doesn't really matter.
-- If a random guy stops dead in his tracks to give you the once over, depending on the guy, it can be confusing, irritating, or complimentary.
-- If a strange guy gets touchy-feely, that's generally time to call the cops.
If you're talking about someone you have a history with (colleague, subordinate, girlfriend, etc.) then the rules and responses change a little due to extenuating circumstances, office/company policies, etc.1