I know it's kind of an odd question, but I'm a black girl and am quite attracted to white guys. My issue is, it's hard to find, or notice if any white guys are interested.
It's probably more comfortable to stay within similar cultures when dating, and I wonder if maybe because black girls have these " I'm a hard ass bitch" stereotypes, perhaps that could cause potential guys to hesitate?
Plus, are there certain characteristics white guys (who date interacially, or think about it,) would avoid in regards to black women?
I'm not very ghetto, but I do embrace my heritage; meaning I'm not stereotypical black , (except I really do like chicken ha ha - but who doesn't right?)
I grew up around a lot of the negative black things associated with my culture, but I hate those things and kind of have my own style.
The guys who approach me are black (naturally,) but usually really thuggish and I'm definitely not attracted to that. I smile and what not at the white guys I think are really cute when I see them, but it usually doesn't go further than that because I'm not sure if he is attracted to me.
So it kind of sucks because I want a boyfriend, but my situation makes it a little difficult.
If anyone has dated interracial on here, how did you guys figure out the other was attracted?
White guys, are you less inclined to approach a black women you think is really beautiful and attractive because of cultural differences?
And I'll just ask this one again, are there certain characteristics that are a huge turn-off in regards to black women?
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>.< I wish I was white.
Anyway, this isn't an odd question at all. It's asked on here multiple times a day. From what I have read on this site, white guys who don't ever see themselves with Black girls think so because:
1. The stereotype that you described.
2. They just aren't attracted to them.
3. They feel that they would not be willing to date them because they are white.
If you're not very ghetto, that's a bonus right there. There are still lots of white guys that are attracted to Black girls, so finding one that's attracted shouldn't be a problem (depending on the area you live in.) For the third reason, you can always just show them you're interested somehow.
I've dated interracially. I found out just by just approaching her. Just like I would do any girl. This probably doesn't apply to you though, as most girls seem dead set against approaching males.
The only characteristic I can think of that would be a major turn off to White guys would be acting like the stereotype.3