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we usually don't. And no matter how hot she may have been, it's over for a reason. If a guy is still hung up on an ex, it most likely isn't for that superficial of a reason. It's more likely that she was a total bitch and screwed him over, and so the anger and frustration has associated passion with her, not her looks.
I've been a guy who had a much better looking ex than the next girl, and to be honest I never once thought to myself "sh*t, why can't she be like that other girl". That's just f***ed up.
Besides, beauty really is on the inside. Some of the most "beautiful" people I've ever met where "plain" on the outside. Most "hot" girls are assholes inside. Count yourself lucky not to be one.