and then they turn around and say "I'm done with this I want a good guy"... do you really think a good guy wants you? why do you think you can go out and have your "fun" and then later on settle down with some poor guy?
and yes I am frustrated and a good guy, I am not spineless or a doormat, and I don't kiss ass, but still day to day I see myself and guys like me get ZERO attention even though we're decent guys
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Back when I was in college, a REALLY great guy had a crush on me, but he was too shy to open his mouth and tell me. So, we ended up being great friends. I was dating a jerk at the time, but was too young and clueless to see what a great catch my friend was. Fast forward 20+ years later. My friend is now married, but he contacted me last year to "catch up" and has stayed in touch on a regular basis since then. I can tell he wants to say to me what he couldn't 20+ years ago. I'm much wiser now...and trust me, if he wasn't married, I wouldn't hesitate for a minute to be with him. It's sad really, because I can tell the flame is there laying dormant under the surface of our polite conversations, but neither of us can act on it.
Do yourself a favor, if you want something, go for it. Don't think that because you are a good guy that women don't want you...in most cases, you're just not making the attempt like the "bad boys" do, for fear of rejection or whatever...who knows. But don't end up like my friend 20+ years from now wondering "what if?" Good luck.