It seems like the only way a guy has tender feelings for a female is because her looks stir some kind of emotion in him. There is no way to be close to men, because they don't seem to want to know you ... just to be happy that you look a certain way or else nothing matters that goes on between the two of you.
I feel like nothing makes a guy feel close to a woman than him liking her appearance?
What Guys Said 2
I felt the same way about girls till I met my wife. She got me to talk to her about things I never have and it made us grow close very fast. Now the most attractive thing is that we are emotionally tied together and that's sexy tobe that close.0
Looks attract in the beginning which is needed, but after that its about who she is as a whole0
What Girls Said 2
The thing that we (girls/guys) first notice is the physical appearence. Guys care more about appearences that girls. They need more time to get to know you.0
Take care of your appearance and look nice. you don't have to look perfect but look decent and make the most of what you have. Men are motivated by a woman's beauty and aren't gonna want to take the time to get to know an unattractive woman. Most of the time unattractive women are ugly because they're lazy and don't take care of themselves.0
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