i know nobody is pretty to everybody, but I fear they're looking at me and going "damn this girl is ugly". and I've been called ugly a fair few times so it's not just paranoia.
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Yeah. We check out girls when we first meet them, but not in the way you think. It's not about, "oh here are a bunch of flaws!" When a guy is checking out a girl for the first time, he'll take in the overall impression and then immediately go to her best features. Does she have pretty eyes? a nice smile? long hair? great t!ts? tight ass? thin waist? long legs? We're looking for the parts that stand out as her most attractive features. So you shouldn't worry so much, because guys aren't looking at your worst flaws but your best assets.