today I went to a pool party and for the first time wore a bikini. when I got there there were tons of girls with perfectly flat stomachs running around in bikinis and I got a little discouraged, but tried my best to stay confident and have a good time.
at one point I went to the bathroom and when I came out the mom of the guy throwing the party was standing at the back door. she pulled me aside and pointed to the flat stomached girls and said "those are the girls who should be wearing bikinis, not you" and then patted my stomach.
needless to say I felt self conscious for the whole rest of the party.
later we decided to go to a movie and changed into normal clothes and the guy's mom offered to wash our suits while we were out. when we got back she said she couldn't find mine and promised to return it when she found it, but I think she's lying.
what should I do?
Most Helpful Girl
controlling much? imagine how she is with her son if she's that way to a teenage girl she doesn't even know...wow. I don't even know what to say I'm so sorry :\
I probably wouldn't have done anything as a teen I would have let it go and not tried to get back my suit
but if you're looking for something to do...maybe tell your mom but if your mom is like me she'd have something to say to that mother and that's a whole other issue LOL. Cause if some mom said that to my kid? oh we'd be having words.