I ask because as I look back on all the girls that have had crushes on me or hit on me over the course of my life, I get pretty discouraged. Only one of them has been hot, and the rest have been nowhere near close to even minimum standards, let alone hot. This got me thinking about my own looks. Is it common for less appealing girls to chase guys out of their league? Or do they pretty much stick to ugly guys because they've lowered their standards so far? I'm hoping to hear that good looking or at least average looking guys deal with this too. If not, I have to assume that the latter scenario is more accurate and that I'm just ugly. I really can't tell if I'm good looking or not. I would've just added a picture, but I know how much everybody hates those threads, so I thought I'd try and figure it out this way.