I used to think I was attractive... then I came to college... I had self confidence, but it kind of went away. It doesn't matter how many guys come up to me in a bar, it doesn't make me feel better. idk. I don't know what will work.
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I'm the same way seeking approval of others and being so worried what people think of me, but this is what my mother told me. They'll will always be somebody who finds you ugly, but then there will always be somebody who thinks you're the most beautiful woman in the world. I mean, there's so many people out there, there's no way you can make everybody happy. She also told me the most important thing is what's inside, because in 30, 40 years you'll lose your looks (well, I mean some women age gracefully...but still), so the most important thing is living your life to the fullest and loving yourself. If you're down on yourself or you don't think you're beautiful people see that, but if you're confident and happy people can see that too. Also, you have to remember it's your flaws that make you special. I wish I could make you feel better though. :/1
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