Guys, do you really like the fact that girls are dressing like they do? the tiny shorts, tops that don't cover anything? Or would you rather that girls covered up a bit? not like wearing turtleneck shirts and sweatpants, but not all the cleavage and tiny skirts? I've heard that girls can be more attractive to guys when they cover up and leave the guys with some imagination, they like mystery, but is this really true? All input is welcome, please.
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I honestly don't really care. I think a girl should balance. She can't cover up all the time, because that gives me the impression she doesn't want anyone to be attracted by her. And that's something I have a problem with, sorry. I don't want anything to do with a girl who doesn't want me or any other guy to be attracted to her, unless she just wants to be my friend.
If a girl wants to show off her body - even if it's my girlfriend - I also don't have a problem with that. And now I'm going to knock off some common misconceptions that A LOT of girls seem to make. Here it is:
SHOWING CLEAVAGE DOES NOT MAKE YOU A SLUT TO US!
WEARING SHORT SKIRTS OR SHORTS DOES NOT MEAN WE THINK YOU'RE A WHORE!
Now that THAT'S out of the way, I'm going to try and explain what DOES make us think a girl is slutty. It's how you act. It's the taking hundreds of pictures of yourself to post on your website for everyone to see. It's the making out with anyone who hits on you.
Personally, I also think girls who exaggerate on the make up, tend to loo slutty as well. Too much lipstick, or fake eye-lashes, or excessive eye-shadow... it's just gross and makes me think you want to get paid for sex. But if you have on NO make up at all, with some jeans and a white tank top, I'm not going to think you're a slut - I'll just think you're hot if you have a nice body, and that's that.
The only reason girls think other girls are sluts is because they lack the self-confidence and/or guts to show off their own bodies, and now that those kind of girls get more attention from guys, and so they think it's unfair and decide to make them feel bad by calling them names. *sigh* Women need to grow up sometimes.1