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It's human nature to want to be in control of things, and people tend to want things that are (or seem) unattainable. Has he ever asked you out? If not, there's still a sense of mystery, a sense of the unknown. As you get to know him better, you might like what you find out, or you might not. It's normal to feel a little confused or unsure of yourself; that's why it's best to take things slow. If he hasn't asked you out after a year, though, that's taking things quite a bit TOO slow.