Spending time apart to create attraction?

Hey guys & girls,

I have been seeing this girl for about 3-4 months now, everything is going great. I haven't seen her in about a week and she is going on a trip soon for about 4-5 days.

I was wondering if maybe its a good idea to not see her before she goes? I've heard that sometimes taking a 2 week break in the middle of dating can freshen things up and make both people appreciate and think about how everything is going?

I look forward to hearing from everyone!


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  • I suppose it depends on the couple, but I find the "two week rule" to be utter nonsense. I wouldn't want to go more than about a week in between seeing my GF; otherwise what's the point of a relationship? Plus, don't you think she'll be tremendously hurt if you don't see her off before she leaves for her trip? I'm sure she would appreciate some quality time with her BF.


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