Would you ever change your appearance, personality to impress a guy? If so why?
What makes girls feel so imperfect? Everyone is beautiful, there's no reason to think looks will make people think differently of you. If a guy is going to date you for your looks. He isn't even worth your time in the first place... I know so many girls with boss ass personalities that I'd love to date, just because they're fun to be with, and I can stay in a good mood around them. But nobody wants to date a dork :(. People don't realize that I'm an extremely shy and boring person, but girls approach me just because I look interesting.
I think everyone needs to re-evaluate the way they judge the opposite gender. I can guarantee you, you will be so much happier, and find the perfect person, if everyone would stop being so superficial.
- I feel confident in myself
- I don't feel confident in myself (tell why)
- I just wanted some applesauce, wtf man.....
Most Helpful Girl
I'm about the farthest thing from confident. I'm a bit heavy/have a bigger build, still a virgin, have acne, tall for a girl (+5'10"), and have always been told that I look like my father (who is a toothless drunkard). I'm not about to change anything other than my weight and try to get rid of the pimples, but that's more do me than anyone else. I think if I had to wear makeup and heels and go all out with fake crap to appeal to a guy, he doesn't really like me. Guys that choose girls for looks alone is like they're buying dog sh*t because it was wrapped in something shiny, it just doesn't make sense.
As for not trusting girls that wear makeup, I'm with you. I always wonder what they're hiding and why bother hiding it if everyone can tell you're covering something in the first place. Anything past eye makeup (eyeliner, maybe mascara) and lipgloss/Chapstick just seems excessive to me, unless you have somewhere important to be and have to cover up a zit. A lot of girls feel like they need it to be pretty, but so many I them would be better off throwing it all away and just going natural.