Ok It hit me like a ton of bricks the other day... why do we always try and please guys! I mean I was reading some posts (some mine the ones I wrote) and it sounds... I hate to say it pathetic! Why should we change for some guy or to please guys in general? Why give him the time of day when he doesn't give a shit enough to call us? we stress about every little thing when obviously they don't have the decency to let us know what he’s feeling or whatever, or even do a small thing like call to ease or mind . I mean we took the time to come on this site to figure out why a guy hasn't called but he can't even do a simple thing like pick up the phone? That’s not right. Also if we want to wear something we should wear it? You like uggs? You like heels? You like dressing in sweats or getting dressed up? Whatever it is! We should wear whatever we want! God, why change are self’s? To please a guy? Who wouldn't accept us for who we are in the first place? What a catch! In the long run we lose who we are and how sad is that? If you like it that’s all that matters! Right? we have to believe (trust me I’m working on this too cause guys always Know exactly what to say to make you feel your in the wrong or that its our fault or maybe he’s different or maybe I’m… whatever the excuses! It’s not fair to our feelings! And we can't forget who we are in the process. eventually there is going to be a guy who excepts us for who we are (I’m trusting that myself that the right guys is out there trust me this is new for me too I also don't want to sound preachy and I apologize if it came out that way I’m also writing this to vent about what I’m going through and I would assume I’m not the only one so yeah) we need to stay ourselves first and foremost the right guy will except us for who we are and we all need to trust that (me included) haha thanks for reading this! We girls need to stick together am I right? Haha!
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For a girl there is some naturall intense in her whole heart and soul and body to please the person whom she loves!
For exemple,i would love to make food for my husband who arrives home tired from work,or buy some sexy underwear to have a bit fun with him.
But I agree with you what you wanna say...First thing is that every girl should wear those high heels or make-up or etc just because of herself,not because other people or guys.! XD
Pleasing a guy sexually,or in every other way,it's so good,but only if he gives you the same pleasure back.Then it calls-good relationship :)1