The thing is, I am not exactly comfortable with the weight I have put on and want to go back down to my lower weight. I feel slightly pressured by him (and others even) to maintain my current higher weight. It is so complicated. The problems come from the fact that I used to weigh at least 155 pounds and worked very hard to lose weight so now I feel a sense of failure when I weigh over 120. Maybe it sounds crazy but I can't help being controlled by that number on the scale.
How do I make my boyfriend understand that I am not happy with these few extra pounds?
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If you are happy with how you look that is all that matters. Don't lose weight if you don't want to. Please yourself before you please him.