I think my girlfriend is too beautiful for me?
Having been very girl shy when I was younger, she is my first true girlfriend. She developed a crush on me, and then practically asked me out after being friends for awhile. I never had any intentions of pursuing a relationship, until she started dropping hints (and later admitted) that she liked me.
Just looking at some of the photos she has placed on her Facebook; I really step out sometimes and wonder what a stunning girl wants to do with me? I mean I am not an attractive guy by any means, I am slightly overweight, have a huge ugly nose (let alone face), and since I am too busy to work out, I have no muscles to show off. She tells me that I am the sweetest, most thoughtful, and ambitious guy she has ever met, and how she is obsessed with and dreams of me, but somehow, I feel like I am just too ugly for her.
Should I just let her go? I feel like I am just too ugly for her; she can probably find someone better.
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I'm not going to say beauty is in the eye of the beholder, because it's cliche...(Rats, I guess I did say it.)
She thinks your soul is beautiful. She's just fortunate that her outward appearance matches her inward appearance.
Now, I'm NOT going to say let it go. If you feel that you are too ugly, then do something about it!
That's the beauty of outward beauty, it can be changed. (A lot easier than inward beauty.)
You say you're a bit overweight, then try working out a bit. It will help you to feel that you are doing something to deserve her. (Althogh she feels that you are worthy already.) It will also have the benefit of making you healthier.
Think of it this way. Many girls go after people with outward beauty and then try to fix the ugliness they find inside people. She went after someone with inward beauty. Now you can work on improving the 'ugliness' YOU feel is on the outside. (She probably doesn't see it.)
Whatever you do, don't just let her go. Fight for her. (In this case fighting your insecurities to make yourself 'deserve' her.)2