OK, so within the past 20 years (going to become 30 years old in 2012) I'm officially giving up on love altogether. I don't find myself unattractive though I know I have some ways of improvement (losing weight / building muscle) yet I find myself a 7 or maybe a 8... However, while in my childhood I've always be made fun of being born with a slight big head (which is mostly seen on the size not face to face)... Black kid's made fun of me the most which I hate till this day... I'm not a person that will ever disrespect women though if I'm going to be ignored or treated like a joke for the rest of my life to hell with love and women altogether... Maybe like Jay-Z I will place my heart on making money until I'm successfully rich like Jay-Z, Eminem or even Bill Gates.. Shoot if god didn't want me to be in life for the rest my life Ah-well... OK, so with that being said what do you think I should do for a person whom had never had the chance to date, make love or even get a girl to like him for over 30 years... Also, what grade would you give me from 1 - 10 with 10 being great...
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I feel sorry that you've gotten to the place you are at. If you would like to focus on money alone then more power to you. If however you do want to find love and have a chance at it, please please don't follow any guys' advice about becoming a jerk and treating women bad. That doesn't work either and they know it, they're just too bitter to say so.
I have to ask a few questions though to move forward: Have you ever been on a date? Have you ever had a girlfriend? Are you a virgin? Do you get out much? Do you approach/ask out women or do you wait for them to come to you? Is there a certain point where dating seems to go wrong for you? (Like, the approaching stage, the phone number stage, the first date stage, etc.) Do you exercise? And have you tried online dating?
These things will help a lot in my advice.0
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