And is a 14-year-old girl too young to get one?
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I got mine a couple years ago.. and love mine so no I don't think their ugly, rarely anyone sees mine though.
I honestly think you should wait a few more years before you get one, but it's really up to you I was dying to get mine so I know how you feel.
It doesn't hurt too much either (at least I didn't think so), if you end up getting one make sure you leave it in for 8 weeks before changing it and take good care so it doesn't get infected, as for swimming with it - yes you can just don't use any soaps around that area other then what the professionals suggested.